Sunday, January 29, 2006

south florida latina converting to islam

The following story appeared last year in the Sun-Sentinel under the title "Some S. Florida Latinas converting to Islam for emphasis on family, women's roles" by Tal Abbady. Alot has already been written about Latinos (especially Latinas) becoming Muslim. I've even posted similar articles on Planet Grenada. But personally I thought that this was well-written and more interesting than most, especially in describing the relationship between Latino culture (in this case the women interviewed were Cuban and Dominican) and Islam.



Miami, USA - Melissa Matos slips into an easy communion with her newest circle of friends. At regular meetings, they invoke their families' native towns in Cuba or the Dominican Republic, or recipes for arroz con pollo. English is interspersed with Spanish. And, posing no incongruity to the women, hijabs, or Muslim head scarves, frame their faces.

When she converted to Islam in May, Matos, a Dominican-American raised as a Seventh-day Adventist, expected the passage to be lonely.

"I said to myself, `Great, I'm going to be the only Muslim Latina in the whole world,'" said Matos, 20, a student at Florida International University who recently joined a group of Latina converts to Islam.

Scholars say Matos is part of a growing number of Latin women converting to Islam for its emphasis on family, piety and clearly defined women's roles, values converts say were once integral to Hispanic culture but have waned after years of assimilation.

The women are among 40,000 Hispanic converts to Islam in the United States, according to the Islamic Society of North America. About a decade ago, Latino converts began forming Internet groups such as the Latino American Dawah Organization and the women's group Piedad that trace Hispanics' ties to Islam back to the Spanish Moors.

Grass-roots leaders say the number of converts grew sharply after the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks, bucking a trend of thought among Americans that links Islam to terrorism.

Sofian Abelaziz, president of the Miami-based American Muslim Association of North America, said one indication of the conversions is the demand for Spanish-language copies of the Koran, which spiked after Sept. 11. In the past two years, the group has filled orders for 5,500 Spanish-language Korans for schools, cultural institutes and prisons around the country, out of 12,000 orders total.

Matos and other converts say the recent media spotlight on Islam was their first exposure to the faith and spurred further learning.

"[Before] I picked up the Koran, my attitude was, `There's something wrong with this religion,'" said Matos, 20, of Miramar. A friend gave her a copy of the Koran. "But then I saw it was filled discussions of grace from God, of the protection of things we talk about as human rights, of a universal brotherhood. ... This is a religion that encourages thinking and contemplation," she said. In May, Matos converted by reciting the shahada, a prayer in which converts attest to their belief in Allah and Mohammed in front of Muslim witnesses. Islam now circumscribes her life. She is studying Arabic, prays five times a day, wears a hijab and follows Islamic dietary laws.

"There is no conflict between my Dominican heritage and Islam. I grew up in a culture where you have a family you love and you take care of one another, and Islam complements those values," Matos said.

Matos' conversion rattled friends and family members who linked Islam with Taliban-style oppression, but scholars say Latina converts are practicing a confessional Islam that offers strong moral guidelines.

"People might ask, `Why would women convert to a religion that is so traditional in its gender roles?' But that's part of the appeal. There's a recovery of dignity," said Manuel Vasquez, religion professor at the University of Florida. "Second-generation Latinas are caught between the morality of their parents and the morality of the larger mainstream society. Islam offers a clear code. Women ... know they are respected, taken care and protected from the negative influences of secular society. It's a kind of empowerment they don't experience in a culture that is constantly sexualizing them, and Latinas are particularly sexualized."

The converts may be fashioning a form of Islam that meets their needs in a country that allows them to do so.

"It's a comment on our society, on the fragmentation of American family life," said Leila Ahmed, a Harvard University professor who has written extensively on gender in Islam. "We have to bear that this is happening in America, where there is freedom of choice. These women are not converting in order to go and live in Saudi Arabia. We also don't know how permanent these conversions are in a country where people convert two or three times in their lives."

Like many converts, Matos calls herself a "revert," a reference to the Muslim belief that everyone is born in a state of submission to Allah. Being Hispanic and following Islam now are inextricable.

"When I meet with [my group] we speak in Spanish," she said. "We'll talk about what it was like back in Cuba or the Dominican Republic. And yet we're all wearing hijabs. It reminds me of the universality of Islam."

Religious leaders say the Latina converts assimilate easily into Islam.

"What they see in Islam is what their parents used to practice: that respect for elders, the care and protection that husbands are obligated to give their wives," said Maulana Shafayat Mohamed, director of the Darul Uloom Islamic Institute in Pembroke Pines. "Many converts tell me, `This is how my parents grew up.'"

When a Hispanic Muslim friend slipped a copy of the Koran into her hands, Marie Hernandez found "a total way of life."

"I started reading about the life of the Prophet Mohammed, and I was convinced that this is the true prophet of God," said Hernandez, 22, of Boca Raton. "This is the message I have to follow."

Islam also was a powerful antidote to a troubled adolescence, during which Hernandez left home for two years.

Conversion meant the end of partying, very little television and waking up at 5 a.m. for her first prayers. It also meant reconciling with her Honduran-born Catholic parents and becoming a Muslim wife. She met her husband, an Egyptian, through a meeting arranged by her imam. They have a 20-month-old toddler, Fatimah, named for the Prophet Mohammed's iconic daughter.

"At first my parents thought it was weird, and they were scared," Hernandez said. "They thought I might get too extreme in my worship. But now we have a beautiful relationship. Part of being a Muslim is to honor your parents, and I started treating my dad the way I should have."

A strong draw for Hernandez was the idea that for Muslims, Islam is the culmination of all religions. In the Koran, Jesus is venerated as a prophet, and entire passages are devoted to the Virgin Mary -- a ubiquitous figure in Latin American culture.

"It's important to know that Jesus and Mary play a role in Islam. Most Latin Americans are Catholic because that's all they know, that's what their predecessors were," said Hernandez, who cooks tamales to celebrate the end of Ramadan.

Converts say they are evidence that Latino identity is in flux.

"One reaction Latinos have with regard to Latinos who come to Islam is, `You're leaving your religion! You're leaving your culture!' But Latino culture is evolving," said Juan Galvan, president of the Texas chapter of the Latino American Dawah Organization.

"It's quite possible that Islam will one day be inseparable from Latino culture just as Christianity is."

Roraima Aisha Kanar, 52, is from a family of Cuban exiles who fled Cuba in 1959 and settled in Miami. Dissatisfied with Catholicism, she converted to Islam 30 years ago.

"My mother was devastated. I couldn't go to the beach and wear a bathing suit. I had to be covered and not wear makeup. I couldn't wear low-cut dresses. I felt like telling her, `Do you mean to tell me that's what's important in life?'" she said. "I think Latinas who convert are looking for a culture that we'd always had and then lost: strictness in the family, respect towards the elderly, moral and spiritual ties and the importance of having God in your life. Our grandparents had values similar to that. As converts we're just coming back to our roots."

After her conversion, she grew apart from her nightclub-hopping friends. She married a Turkish man with whom she has three children.

For Kanar, wearing the hijab, which some see as a sign of subjugation, is liberating.

"I lived through the '70s women's-lib movement," said Kanar, who works in accounting and owns a real estate business. "As a woman you wanted to be accepted as a person with a brain and not just a sexual object that had to be looking pretty to men all the time. I saw covering as something that would give me a lot of self-esteem. It did."

Kanar says she has straddled her Latino heritage and Islam comfortably.

"As soon as you speak to me you forget I'm wearing a hijab. I'm Cuban, and I speak with my hands. I love Celia Cruz. We don't go to Calle Ocho and we don't celebrate Christmas. We eat Spanish food, and though we won't have pork, we can do a nice lamb. What does it mean to be a Cuban, really? I feel Cuban, but I'm a Muslim Cuban."

9 comments:

sondjata said...

won't get into this too much as to not disrespect the owner of this blog howev er this article has a few problems:

1) Was the individual turned off from Christianity (specificaly SDA) because it was flawed or because she had not taken biblical teachings seriously?

Seventh Day Adventists are some of the most conservative Christians out there who have strict dietary rules. Strict dress rules including the non-wearing of jewelry, no sex before marriage and modest dress code.

2) Riding on question 1, how much of her conversion was related to a rejection of her admitted "troubled" life prior to conversion?

See the problem here is that I can easily point to Christian groups that value the same things that she claimed to have found "unique" to Islam. I put unique in quotes to emphasis that this was her attitude.

3)How is it possible for an article to claim that Islam is the culmination of all religions? That is simply untrue. That it follows in line with Judaism and Christianity, that does not make "all religions."

4)It would seem that the individual here "converted" to Islam because it was familiar to her and not neccessarily for it being much differently "lifestyle wise" to that which she had grown up with, but apparrently didn't take seriously.

I ultimately respect the belief decisions that people make for themselves, but articles such as these do not ask the right questions or even question the very validity of the assertions made.

Thank you.

Empress said...
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Empress said...

I think it's a great post :D

And "sondjata" I think the articles clearly answers your questions.

1-2-For whatever reason that caused them to convert it must have been that they found something better - something that was missing in Christianity or simply they felt more whole and complete.

3-NEWS FLASH:Islam is the culmination OF ALL RELIGIONS it followed them in line but it put together all the right teachings and values it even took several things from Christianity- Because if u don't know in Islam we believe in Jesus but as a prophet.

4-For whatever reason that drove her to convert it made her feel better and gave her a better lifestyle to live by

+I think if would take time to research Islam more you would find that it is not merely a religion but it's a complete wonderful way of life :D

Empress3

Abdul-Halim V. said...

In terms of 1 and 2, I would just say in general that the reasons why any one person converts from one religion to another are going to be complex and will probably be hard to pin down to one or two things.

I agree that SDA is probably on the strict end of the continuum in terms of Christian groups.

But still there are some areas where the typical practicing orthodox Muslim will be "stricter" than your typical practicing orthodox SDA member (even in areas like dietary code, dress code)

But I don't think of it as a contest. Maybe there were other factors which played a role in her decision which just were not mentioned in the article.

In terms of 4, I actually kind of agree with you. I think most religions (except for the poison Kool-Aid drinking, gun-stockpiling, isolated compound-having, Hale-Bopp following death cults) are full of alot of the same generally positive message of being a good neighbor, honest, trust-worthy, contributing member of society. And so it would be a little difficult to find some value in one religion which was totally and completely absent from most of the others.

But I still do very much identify (based on personal experience) that an individual will find certain values and principles which are important to them, more clearly or forcefully expressed by one religious community more than another. And different people will have different experiences, even when you are talking about the "same" religion.

In terms of 3, i would say that a decent explanation of how one might see islam in a more universal way can be found at the metaphysics of interfaith dialogue or another you might find interesting is santeria and islam

sondjata said...

Hello Empress;

1) actually the article does not answer the questions posed. Paragraphs 9-12 detail her reasoning. including encouragmnent of thinking and contemplation, grace of God,valuing gender roles. in paragraphs 18 and 19 detail that she had a troubled adolesence and she had to stop partying and such.

As I pointed out, Seventh Day Adventist are not allowed to dance, drink, dress immodestly or eat meats or any scavenger. They are not to go to movie theaters have premaritual sex etc. So besides praying 5 times a day, there is absolutely nothing she has described in her "conversion" that she could not have been doing as a Seventh Day Adventist. In fact, by admitting to the partying she is admitting to not even have taken SDA ideology seriously or to heart. Thus I question the validity of her arguement about her conversion simply because she never took her 'original' religion seriously.

2) It is indeed incorrect to claim that Islam (or any other religion for that matter) is the culmination of all religions. Rastafari (an offshoot of Christianity) is arguably newer than Islam as determined by the Quran. Therefore it would be arguable that Rastafari is the culmination of all religions simply based on it's chronological creation. But you wouldn't buy that arguement and neither do I.

Also, How parochial is it to presume the only valid religions are those based on the Judaic/Aramic philosphies? I won't even get into the Egypotian origins of those. How does the inclusion of Jesus, Mary Joseph et al. make a religion THE culmination? I mean where is confusionism? Taoism? Budhism? None of which even have a Jesus, Mary or Joseph? Are we saying they simply are not valid religions? What about Hinduism? What about the Original religions of Africa and the Americas? These too have no Jesus, Mary et.al. Are we saying that Islam in fact encompases these religions? Prove it. Some of the aforementioned religions don't even believe in the existance of a devil, which would mean that they have no use for a Ka'aba or even a Haj.

Lastly, I know that Islam is more than a "religion." So is Seventh Day Adventism and every other brand of Christianity. So is Judaism, so is Budhism. In this particular case, the subject was not living the lifestyle dictated by her previous religion which leaves the door open to ask why she took on basically the same thing in a different form (as far as regimentation is concerned).

Also please do no presuppose what people know or do not know about religion in general.

Thank you to the host for making space for this constructive dialog.

sondjata said...

Thanks for the link.

Interesting post.
I practice Ifa and I would have to disagree with some of your statements about universality.

Perhaps we could build on the subject in a cross blog essay on the subject matter.

sondjata said...

That first link was very informative. I do wish that the concept of universal sufferage was indeed the rule. Though as I think you noticed on a post on my blog, that simply has not been the case in history. I note that the author refers to the treatment of Christians and Jews in Medina, a situation that was refuted by a bloggere I commented on, on my blog and I think you wished to comment on. If the blogger I quoted in historically correct then how does that effect the understanding of your linked author?

Similarly with the destruction of religious artifacts in Africa by Muslims, as well as the recent antics of the Taliban, would that be considered contrary to Islam and if so what kind of recompense should be afforded to those victims?

These aspects discussed at the forum you linked to: How much do they reflect the opinion of rank and file Muslims? How tolerant of persons who are apostate given the proclaimed validity of all religions?

-peace

Abdul-Halim V. said...

Sondjata,

on the issue of strictness. In Islam women are specifically required to cover their hair. In SDA they are not. I don't think this makes SDA women hoochie mamas, but its a difference. I don't even think its a big difference. Both faiths encourage modest dress. But there is this small difference.

In terms of dietary code, similar things can be said. SDA and Islam are similar because for both pork and shellfish are prohibited. But For orthodox Muslims, the animals need to be slaughtered in a specific way (similar to the rules for kosher food).

I wouldn't say one is better than the other because of it, but I think one can fairly objectively say Islam is stricter in certain areas.

In terms of some of your other points, it actually might be beneficial/interesting to have a civil discussion about Islam and African religions.

Abdul-Halim V. said...

In terms of Islam being the culmination of all the religions, I think I"ve touched on aspects of that in the past but maybe it would be good to write a "comprehensive" treatment on the subject.

A very important idea in Islam is that one God sent prophets and messengers all around the world, throughout human history. So a Muslim should in principle be very open to the idea that the major world religions actually had divine origins.

So there are many Muslims who come to terms with the world's religious diversity by affirming the status of other religious founders as prophets.

Speaking personally, I would say that there is a lot in Taoism and Buddhism which makes sense to me as a Muslim. And as I tried to get across in the Santeria piece, I see many African religions in the same way.